How is it that BBW can tell who is getting laid and who isn’t? I’m sure that many of you have pondered that. And as many of you already know, chubby women tend to want men that seem like they’re already getting laid. This means that guys who don’t need to get laid are the ones getting all of the offers for sex. What is the key indicator that a busty woman looks at? She may not even know it, but as I look at my history, it is very clear to me. So what is it? Patience. Men who are getting laid have a much higher degree of patience with women. Why? Because there is no NEED for them to get laid, as they already have an oversized woman (or a few).

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Men who already have options are much cooler, calm, and laid back. Not in the “I’m boring sense”, but in the sense that they don’t put a lot of pressure on BBW to make something happen, whether it is getting a phone number, getting a date, or getting sex. These men have the mindsets of “it’s cool if something happens, but if it doesn’t, then that’s cool too.”.

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When I look at why I got the busty women a lot of my friends wanted when I was growing up, I got them because I didn’t feel a NEED for them. For example, my friends were always calling these plus size girls, always trying to get them to break-up with their boyfriends (if they had one), always telling them how much they like them, and always pushing for a date or sex. And then you look at me. I never pressured any of these girls for anything, I never had a sense of urgency to make something happen, and it was cool if they had other men in their lives.

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It just wasn’t a big deal for me. I was willing to wait as long as it took to get the busty girl I wanted. Until that happened, I was totally cool being friends. When you have the “It’s cool. Whatever happens, happens.” mindset, you are so much more attractive to BBW. They’re going to figure that you already have options and want you more. And even if you don’t have options, there’s a good chance that they’ll eventually do whatever with you simply because you are a really cool guy that’s chill as fuck, and don’t come off as impatient and needy.

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A lot of you were taught to always try to make something happen with a oversized girl, but by doing so, especially when they aren’t totally comfortable with you, it only makes you come off as desperate and needy. When it comes to attracting BBW, you have to have a great deal of patience. Patience is what separates the pro players from the rookies who play the numbers game.

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How can someone who feels impatient get himself to be more patient, or at least seem as if he is patient. Should he just fuck less attractive women and wait until a more attractive one comes along that wants to fuck him? Or are there some techniques that can get a guy behaving as if he is more patient and thus breaking the cycle?

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